Actually there are a few words missing from that statement: Learn to say “no” to the good or the good enough so you can say “yes” to the best. That is a wonderful principle. Yet sometimes good enough must be, well, good enough. Time constraints, financial limitations, lack of resources – any number of things can force us to accept less than the best. But when it comes to our own “personal best” we should never accept less.
Life’s pace is often frenetic. Our responsibilities may seem overwhelming. Our expectations for ourselves and others may push us to the edge of frustration – or even further. Yet we can learn how to declutter and organize our thoughts, plans, relationships, careers – our entire lives. When we learn how , we can then give our personal best all of the time. Saying no may be the best “step one” in reaching that goal.
When presented with opportunities, whether in your personal or professional life, big or small, spend time going through the following mental exercise. Allow yourself the time you need to really weigh the realities. Never be rushed into a decision you will regret.
- How much time will it take, really?
- With whom will I need to interact? Will other individuals slow down or speed up the process?
- Do I know everything I need in order to accomplish this or must I spend time, energy and resources I don’t have or cannot commit?
- Is it something I would really like to do?
- Is this something I am truly capable of doing?
- If I say yes, would it simply be to please someone else?
- Is it an ongoing obligation that I really don’t want or can’t commit to?
- Does it fit into/with my plans and goals?
Saying yes to something that is really the best means saying no to what isn’t. That may mean making some hard choices, but it is the ability to make wise decisions that will propel you to ultimate success.